Saturday, September 30, 2023

What a difference a year makes

I took Peter to our favorite cider mill last week - the first cider mill visit of Fall.  So exciting!  What a difference one year makes for a kid.  He rode the tractors independently, he didn't find the train nearly as exciting ("It's not a real train!"), and the hay bales that used to be the perfect test of one's jumping prowess, have been arranged differently for the first time in 17 years so they were not really jumpable anymore.  We still had a great time, though.  


Last time his feet couldn't reach the pedals!





No more jumping from bale to bale as it was last time:



Last time I took Peter!  Look how much he's grown:

The corn box is still a hit.


 

Senior Photos

Benjamin is a senior, which means senior photos - an overpriced racket if there ever was one.  Yearbook photos are free every other year (unless you want to order your own prints, then they're about $35).  However, as a senior, you have to pay $60 for a professional photo shoot with a company which has contracted with all the high schools in the area.  They will send the photo directly to the school if you want one in the yearbook.  If you want a copy for yourself, it's $70 per print.  Multiple outfits and settings can cost as much as $1800.  Insane.  So here is Benjamin's yearbook photo as it looks when I photograph my laptop screen with my phone:


A few others I liked from the photo shoot:




It was fun sitting in on the photoshoot.  It's amazing how many details are adjusted when taking professional pictures.  Although I'm way too cheap to order them, I have to give the photographer credit - she did very nice work.




Wednesday, September 13, 2023

School Has Begun

 We are fully into the swing of school now.  Painfully early mornings of seminary, long days of classes, and late nights of homework and sports activities.  Some days it's very hard, but the kids love being with their friends, love playing in the band, and enjoy trying new things.  For example, this is the first year that Christian is doing cross country and robotics and he's enjoying both of them very much.  He's one of the fastest kids on his team.



Peter has been doing well at preschool too.  2 hours/day on M,W, F.  Not too much but enough that hopefully he will make some friends with kids his age.  Right now he always seems to prefer ones that are older than him, even if it's only by a few years.


On the first day of school, Benjamin and the rest of the drumline had to be there extra early to welcome in all the kids.


Since then they've both played at multiple games and marching band competitions.  Peter is always my buddy at those.  Christian loves to come for the football.  We've gone from me explaining things to him to now me asking the questions.  He's developed quite an interest in the game. Suddenly he knows all the NFL teams and players and stats and constantly wants to watch games in the evenings, when just last year he couldn't have cared less. He's got a great one-handed catch too and will often play football with Peter in the backyard.




Peter's new thing is soccer, though.  Every day he wants to put on his cleats and play soccer with me.  So I signed him up for a class and he's loving it.  Coach Ken is great with the kids.  Here he's being "Coach Octopus" and trying to keep them from getting by him.  (Peter's in the green shirt).


Other random happenings:

Touch-A-Truck is one of Peter's favorite events every year.  This year was no exception.  The garbage truck was his first stop.  He also loved the race car, the military tank, the helicopter, and the various tractors.  What a little boy's dream.




Peter has also been hiking with a local preschool hiking group.  It's so adorable to see all these little kids exploring the woods and finding cool things to investigate.  His favorite little friend there is Emory, a precocious, brilliant 6 year old homeschooler.  She's my fave too.  He has good taste.



We attended the state fair again this year.  Kelly and I decided that we really need to go without little kids sometime.  It wasn't quite what we'd hoped thanks to a tired, somewhat cranky 4 year old.  We managed to have a decent time anyway, though, mostly thanks to the lego table and the unlimited free chocolate milk the Guernsey dairy was offering.



Benjamin has yet to attend a single church dance, but Bella has been willing to attend a few.  I love that in our ward, the kids go as a huge group and all get along really well.  I hope these friendships last a long time.






Saturday, August 26, 2023

Where Did the Summer Go??? Recap Part 6

 The final camp of the summer was Bella's band camp.  She worked very hard but had a great time too.  I'm so happy that my kids found band/marching band.  What an amazing group of people with whom they get to associate, and what amazing friendships they are developing, and what amazing skills and character traits they are developing as well.  Sadly, her band leaders/chaperones didn't post any pictures of camp with her in them, so what I have is from the events since then - concert for the parents and their day at the University of Michigan.




Other random happenings this summer:

Benjamin got his wisdom teeth removed.  He walked around in a zombie walk with his bloody mouth and looked sooo realistic.  Hearing Benjamin speak with a numb mouth full of gauze is absolutely hilarious, but sadly he was never loopy enough to say anything truly embarrassing.  I'll spare you the bloody pictures.

Benjamin also got his patriarchal blessing.  What a momentous and special occasion!  It's so incredible to remember your own experience and then watch your child receive one too.  His blessing was beautiful and inspiring.  I hope he will always cherish it.

Kelly and I and the younger two participated in the yearly Huron Valley River Clean-up project sponsored by the Milford Chamber of Commerce.  I've been doing this with my kids for years and years but covid put a damper on things and it was so fun to get back into it and have Kelly along too.  Float down the river picking up trash, enjoy the beautiful scenery and screen-free family time and get a free breakfast and lunch for it.  Christian was the hero of the day diving into the river and picking up things our nets and grabbers couldn't reach.  Even other boats were calling to him and having him get things for them.



I took the boys to Spring Mill Pond many times this summer.  We love our new paddle board that we bought just before spring break.  Our last visit was the best because the weather was cooler and overcast so very few people were there.  We love nothing better than having the lake to ourselves.  Christian's favorite thing was to play football from the paddle board.  It just got tricky if you missed a catch.  Then you had to go swimming for it.




I also took the boys mini golfing.  Peter refused to be taught correct form.   Any effort I made to show him how to swing was met with a club throw and a frustrated stomping off.  So we gave up and let him do whatever he wanted.  By the 5th hole he'd had enough of any kind of swinging and proceeded to jump in and out of the water hazard at hole 17 and to steal our balls and throw them around the course.   Thankfully the course was empty except for us.  I tried all my best parenting tricks but nothing really worked so I finally locked him in the car while we finished holes 17 and 18 and then we let him put the balls into the little ball return.  He enjoyed that as much as any of the game.  In the end, we all had fun and left happy and I discovered that Christian is a much better golfer than I thought.  I was impressed.





Our trampoline finally reached it's end this summer with a hole big enough for Peter to fall into.  So we got a new one. 

We also got a new piano after Peter poured a glass of water over our old one.  No matter how often you tell kids not to put their water glass on the piano, they will still put a water glass on the piano and then little brothers just can't wait to see what will happen if you pour it out.  For the curious: the electric piano makes really funny sounds, even while no one is playing it, for a few days and then never makes another sound ever again.

So we got a new one which came in a VERY large box.  What did the boys do with the box?  Of course, a marksman's hideout.  Ankles beware if you walk past this one.   We had a great time rolling things in front of the box and trying to see if we could hit them.


Where Did the Summer Go??? Recap Part 5 - Birthdays

 August in our house means birthdays.  Peter turned 4 and Christian turned 13!!   I realize that I also didn't write about Benjamin's birthday in July!  He turned 17!! 

Peter didn't want a cake, he just wanted pancakes.




He also didn't want a party.  He asked only that I read as many books to him as he wants all day long.  Poor 4th child.  So I made sure he got lots of attention on his big day and so did Christian.



Funny story - he was captivated with the idea that people give you presents on your birthday, so he decided to go around telling people it was his birthday so they would give him presents.  He went to his favorite neighbor's house, Parker, knocked on the door, and proudly told him it was his birthday.  Parker wished him a happy birthday and told him he'd find him a present and should he come back later to get it.  However, when he went later to claim it, Parker wasn't home and there was no present.  He was so heartbroken that he cried harder than I've seen in a long time.  I felt so bad.  Luckily, he shares his birthday with a kind woman in the ward, Thea, and I invited her and her friends out to lunch on the big day.  Each of the ladies remembered that it was Peter's birthday too and came with a present for him as well.  Such kind women.  It made his day.

Christian also didn't want a party for his birthday.  He wanted to go to a trampoline park and to MOD pizza.  








Perfect for everyone.  I asked him if he wanted to invite friends and he said, "I don't need to.  I have Peter."  So cute.

Benjamin also didn't want a cake or a party.  So I got brownie bites from Costco and made a cake-ish stack and he spent his day at church and traveling to FSY camp.  



Peter gave him some of his favorite toys as a present.  Such a sweet gesture to be so generous with his favorite items.