Tuesday, September 10, 2024

It's Official - We Have a Missionary!

 Benjamin was set apart as a full-time missionary for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints yesterday.  He spent all day today in on-line training meetings with other youth from all over the country.  He met his training center companion who is from Irvine, California will also be serving in Wichita, Kansas, Spanish Speaking, so hopefully they can travel from the Mexico to Kansas together.  He says he's really nice and they get along well so far.  Otherwise, Benjamin has shown remarkable maturity.  He sat and learned and focused from 2pm-11pm today (late start due to differing time zones) and it was amazing to see him so dedicated.  We're super excited for this new phase in his life.  We know he's going to be amazing.



Friday, September 06, 2024

Family Pictures

 Before Benjamin leaves, we wanted to get one more set of family photos.  I was super grateful my teaching partner in seminary was willing to be our photographer.  She does an amazing job.  I think they turned out very nice.  The best part was Peter willingly posed!  First time in multiple years of trying for a decent family photo with him.  It made me so happy.  Also, I'm so glad I got a last picture of Benjamin before his dramatic hair cut.








It's Getting Real!

 The fact that Benjamin is really leaving for two years is starting to hit hard.  This past week we had some big milestones - Benjamin's ordination to the Melchizedek Priesthood and his first time in the temple to receive his endowment.  

Awkward attempt to document the moment in Kelly's office after the ordination (we only thought to take a picture after other priesthood holders had left):


It's moments like this I wish we had a lot of extended family around to join us for such moments (and to make the pictures better!) but I'm so grateful for my little family and this last bit of time we have together.

Benjamin's missionary tags came and we got all his suits.  Christian wanted to model.


For his endowment we had to go to another temple because the one in Detroit is closed for renovations until October.  We chose the Columbus, Ohio temple because our other options were Chicago (farther drive, a bit overwhelmingly big) or Indianapolis (also closed for renovations).  We're very happy with Columbus.  It was small and personal.  He was the only one going through for the first time that day and everyone gave him the star treatment.  They helped him to feel much more comfortable.  It was a very emotional day for me seeing my son in the temple after all the years I've spent praying that such a day would come.  As I entered the celestial room and sat with him and Kelly, I couldn't help but cry with joy, of course, making Benjamin very uncomfortable, I'm sure.  I'm just so grateful to God for His plan and His goodness.  

We drove down to Columbus Thursday night, just the three of us, while Christian and Bella stayed with Peter.  We got a hotel Thursday night that was just ten minutes from the temple and we went to the temple Friday morning and spent pretty much the whole day there doing various ordinances, including Benjamin's endowment.  Saturday we did another endowment session before driving home.  It was a wonderful last few days together, just the three of us.  Made me think of the trips the three of us took when Benjamin was just a baby - up north in Michigan & down to Kirtland, Ohio.  Little Benjamin in the back seat.  I'm going to miss that boy so much but I'm so excited for him.  And check out that haircut!  That's sacrifice in action, right there.  He went and got it done without complaint.



Home MTC starts Sept 9 and he flies to Mexico Sept 19! 

In preparation for him leaving, I also have been teaching him a few last minute things, such as this week, it was how to sew up a tear in clothing and how to sew a button back on.  We made it the lesson in our family home evening this week.  While we were practicing, Peter wanted to sew too.  I handed him a piece of fabric and two buttons and Kelly helped him with the rest, while I showed the older three.   Kelly helped him sew on 2 buttons but Peter wasn't interested in sewing up the tear, because look how cool Dinosaur Peter looks!